Excitability in women during the session of oriental massage can be expressed in different ways and the ratio of activity for a man and a woman will be different. In addition, many women sincerely believe that men do not have erogenous zones at all and caressing them is useless: “why try, if they are so excited,” they believe and steal themselves. Others, on the contrary, complain that the men are overly excitable and the slightest weasel leads them to ejaculation. Third (more often anorgasmic women) consider a love game in any form of debauchery. Finally, the fourth ones themselves are restrained for fear of being accused of depravity or having a by-product of sexual experience.
Indeed, men are excited more easily and faster than women, and active stimulation can lead to rapid discharge. Therefore, during the massage, a man and woman are recommended different behavior: a man is better to actively caress the most pronounced female erogenous zones, striving to provoke a strong excitement in the shortest possible time, and the activity of the woman is more aimed at more restrained, encouraging caresses. In addition, a woman should know that the appearance of an active excited partner in itself acts on men.
A certain set of human erogenous zones can be compared to a telephone number. Composing combinations of different numbers, you can get through to a lot of people, but only by dialing a certain number, you will get to a specific person. Therefore, when erotic massage is important to unravel the same cherished code. However, in this case, the response to stimulation of certain sites can be strikingly different. On the body there is one zone that requires priority attention, and the partner doing erotic massage should address first of all to her, find her and gently touch this site. After the massage of this zone, the second and third zones will wake up and claim their existence, and so on along the growing one. From all the above, we can conclude that the path to sexual harmony between a man and a woman lies through the knowledge of erogenous zones and easily excitable sites of each of the partners.
The man in comparison with the woman of erogenous zones is much less. To the primary erogenous zones of the man are sexual organs, where the most part of the nerve endings is concentrated, the scalp, earlobes, lateral surfaces of the neck, lips, tongue, lower abdomen, inner thighs and buttocks. In most women, erogenous zones are the chest, popliteal fossa, genitals, buttocks and lobes of the ears. With the right action of the fingers during erotic massage in the lumbosacral region and with gentle pressure on the tips of the toes, you can cause sexual arousal. In women, this is a particularly excitable erogenous zone, and for a man it is a strong visual erotic stimulus. Under secondary erogenous zones, sexologists understand certain areas of the body that acquire erotic value due to the influence of the subconscious, for example, with sexual fantasies capable of causing erotic stimulation.
Starting an erotic massage, do not transfer the business rhythm to sexual relations, throw out problems, turn off the phone, doorbell and fully enjoy the pleasures of physical communication.